Sometimes even your own blood can be against you. The shit hard to believe & harder to accept but its the truth. You have to create your own identity before the world or even those around you try and form you into what they want you to be. That only causes rebellion because you are entitled to be your own kind of you! Choose you before anybody has a say so. Be respectful at all times or as best as possible, but overall stand up for you. Because disappointment, anger, lies or etc, the only person that answers for you is you.